I want to get to the root of what seems to be troubling you: the fear that your boyfriend isn't sexually attracted to you, which-though I hate to say it-sounds like a more likely explanation for his behavior than him secretly being gay. The rejection would be a lot less painful. I know it would be a relief if he were exclusively into dudes, because you wouldn't have to contend with the possibility that he's into women, but not you. Without knowing your boyfriend, I can't say for certain whether or not he's gay. If he was gay, I’d understand why he didn’t want to have sex with me. Is there a way I could ask him without sounding judgmental?Īlso, I’m now wondering if he’s gay, and maybe that’s why he’s hesitating to go further? He once told me he knew someone who had made love to women all over the world, and sometimes that guy would have sex with men, too. He has introduced me to some of his coworkers, saying, “Would you believe she's 74?” I don't know if he's daring himself to be with me.
We text every day and see each other multiple times a week. He’s amorous and caring, and we always have a great time together. We've become intimate in some ways, but not all the way. Over the past three months, we've become much closer, and the chemistry is definitely there.
I will admit, I do look damn good for my age. He asked for my number, and I gave it to him. I met a wonderful guy who works security at Walmart. To submit a question for a future column, fill out this form. Ask me anything-literally, anything-and I will gladly Sexplain It. I'm here to answer your most pressing sex questions with thorough, actionable advice that isn't just "communicate with your partner," because you know that already. In doing so, I've learned a thing or two about navigating issues in the bedroom (and a bunch of other places, TBH). Over the years, I've had my fair share of sexual experiences, dating and sleeping with hundreds of people of all genders and orientations. So this is a 4.4⭐️s.I'm Zachary Zane, a sex writer and ethical manwhore (a fancy way of saying I sleep with a lot of people, and I'm very, very open about it). or wherever you need a perfect emoji?! Because the selection of creative choices is awesome and I haven’t seen them anywhere else.
That might be fine- but can’t they also allow you to drop them in at a smaller size? Or at least offer a menu that works with the various msging apps, like iMessage or sms. They’re big and are on their own meant to be a msg. I don’t want to choose an emoji first and open another app to select and share it, and then write my message! And I don’t want to send a message and follow up with an emoji after! - I guess that’s because they are stickers and not the msging add insult that we’re used to. I couldn’t give it quite five stars for the simple reason that you can not easily choose which emojis you want from a menu, while in the process of writing a message. This is a fantastic app and I really enjoy using the plentiful choices of emojis that are offered on it.